I know a family who knew one or more members of my
family well. First I asked questions like:
what can you tell me about "Abe" - what you remember?
(i.e. personality, interests/hobbies, etc.)
and then more specific questions recently like:
do you know if "Abe" had a family prior to moving to
This same family sent me (unsolicited) a family
holiday photo, detailing everyone's names in the
picture, but when I asked specifics about
relationships, etc. I got the cold shoulder.
They want to me to ask other people, but I don't
anyone else (at this point) who knew these family
Makes me wonder if there's some "secret" they're
Does anyone have suggestions as to how to get around