Re: bar mitzvah #general


Judith Romney Wegner
 

At 3:53 PM +0000 9/9/06, Stan Goodman wrote:

On Sat, 9 Sep 2006 14:04:38 UTC, jrw@... (Judith Romney Wegner)
wrote:
> If such celebrations were taking place elsewhere, I wonder why not
in Hameln? (Anyone who has read the book would agree that given the
minute detail she goes into about other life-cycle events in her
family, she would surely have at least mentioned one or two bar
mitzvah ceremonies if such were customary in her time and place.)
> Judith Romney Wegner


I don't think there was such a concept in the early 18th century. It was
nearly a century later that governments started archiving vital records, so
that the importance of birthdays began to develop only then.
Dear Stan,

But who said anything about birthdays in general -- or >from the point
of view of civil records? We were speaking only of the age at which
a Jewish boy becomes obligated to keep mitzvot-- in other words,
the age at which he starts to "count" as an adult. That age was
already established as thirteen for boys (and twelve years old for
girls) way back in mishnaic times nearly two thousand years ago --
so there's nothing modern about that. And marking the age of
majority in Judaism has nothing whatsoever to do with the European
concept of celebrating a birthday -- any birthday -- as such.

For what it's worth, the *only* birthday celebration mentioned in the
entire Bible is Pharaoh's birthday in the story of Joseph! This
would suggest that birthdays in general were not observed in
Israelite culture -- but evidently they were in Egyptian culture --
or at least Pharaoh's was!

My point was simply that the *celebration* of becoming a bar mitzvah
(even marking it merely by making a special point of calling the boy
to the Torah) is not halakhically required -- and apparently (at
least on the evidence of Glueckel's diaries) even this minimal
"marker" was not the practice until comparatively recent centuries.

I am still wondering whether the practice of calling the boy to the
Torah in a symbolic way to mark the occasion developed in different
places at different times. (E.g., does anyone know when Sephardim
started doing this?)

Judith Romney Wegner

Join main@groups.jewishgen.org to automatically receive all group messages.