Richard Tasgal wrote:
Judith Romney Wegner <jrw@...> writes:In my searching I have come across (albeit in a book rather than a grave
Use of R' on tombstones tends to be restricted (a least in Orthodox
minchag here in New Zealand) to indicate someone who had high moral
stature in the community, and is directed to be written on the stone
by direction of the rabbi -- not by the family of the deceased.