Re: thoughts - opinions


My maternal grandmother's first child was stillborn.  I list that baby on our tree because it explains some things about the family and also because knowing she was stillborn can help to dispel a family myth that she "froze to death" while my grandmother was being tended to.  I would not list a miscarriage for someone who is still living, but I might for someone who is deceased if I knew for sure that would not cause pain to anyone.  I have not done it, but the idea of unlinking a relative also has merit. 

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