Re: Relatives want to know - where are the coveted records? #general #lithuania #records

Jx. Gx.

Hello Michele.

I would simple tell them the truth that you haven't yet found everything and that genealogical research sometimes takes decades to uncover records and that sometimes records were discarded or destroyed by man-made disasters such as wars and fires, but that you will continue your search.  To help put things in perspective for them, you might even mention that even they don't have complete personal records such as school reports cards or the mortgage papers to their first home or business licenses they received. You get the idea.  I wouldn't hurt their feelings by telling them their stories are untrue. Doing so would also put you in bad standings with them.

Jeffrey Gee

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