Thank you for the corrected secular date.
The Hebrew letters that represent the numbers 4 and 5 are very similar (5 has a small extra piece, which is often difficult to see or is eroded).
Looking again at the stone, I am changing my original reading of the year: 5654, rather than 5655.
The date of December 3, 1893, corresponds to the 24th or 25th day of Kislev (the 24th, if she died before sunset, the 25th, if she died after sunset). Again, it is not absolutely clear if the last digit is a 4 or a 5.
December 3, 1893, was a Sunday. If she died after sunset, this would be considered Monday in the Jewish calendar.
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Fredel Fruhman
Brooklyn, New York, USA